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Life Update and Covid19

7 / 26 / 20

I finally had the chance to give a personal update here… I don’t know, I just don’t find that ‘spark’ I used to have whenever something happens to me and so always excited to blog about it. But I was actually doing some sort of microblogging via Instagram, you can follow me @Dezruol if you want. The last personal update here was way back October last year. It was about my My First BPO Experience and quitting after 3 years. I decided to switch jobs as a Data and Admin Representative. No more taking in calls and paying a lot more than talking. Haha!

So many things happened then in between, it was a smooth and less stressful time…or so I thought. Until the year 2020 came. 

January 1, 2020
Last photo taken with my mom (far left), also the last time I was able to talk to her.

January 12, 2020. The Taal Volcano erupted and spewed ashes across Calabarzon, Metro Manila, and some parts of Central Luzon. I was able to take a snap of the Ash fall in our terrace the next day. Classes and work were suspended and most are advised to wear a mask.

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Ashfall have reached NCR and all were advised to wear masks.
The shortage of masks started upon the Taal Volcano eruption, I was able to buy one online with the help of my co-worker for a washable mask with filter. little did we know that it will be part of our ‘new normal’ now.

Come January 15, dear daughter is having an on-off high fever so we decided to rush her to the ER and was admitted due to a cellulitis in her elbow. She had to stay for about 3 days.

And on January 22, 2020 I had to urgently seek help on where to get blood for my mom who had to undergo toe amputation. So grateful to my FB friends who helped out and to the immediate action of Philippine Red Cross.

They immediately got the details of the blood we needed and contacted the nearest blood bank.

January 25,2020. We had our annual childhood friends reunion and asked some long ‘lost friends’ to join and were happy they came… Only to miss Joseph here in this group… Was it a sort of premonition?!

Annual Childhood friends reunion

It was January 26, when rumours of a suspected Covid19 ( Coronavirus) case spread over the internet. A Male Chinese was rushed to a Manila based (Binondo) hospital with suspected coronavirus symptoms.

February 9, 2020. I received a call from my niece crying and said ‘wala na si Nanay’. I was so surprised because as per their last update, the operation for toe amputation was successful. She was just out of the hospital in less than a week and then the phone call… My niece said Nanay has not eaten a lot the past few days and is supposed to go back for a follow up check up… which did not happen anymore…

February 11,2020. One of the saddest birthday I ever had. As I’ve said, how can you celebrate your birthday when the life of the person who gave birth to you just lost hers? How ironic life is really… Mom were finally laid to her rest on the 15 of February 2020.

February 18, 2020. We were able to push through with our Davao trip that was booked late last year. DH and I with his nephew and sisters with their husbands. See photo below with the captions. These photos were uploaded and taken on my Facebook timeline..

Maayong Buntag Davao! First order of the day, buy a Loperamide ? and an early morning walk around the city.
Love the complimentary cake and comfy bed. Staff were all polite and helpful
Day1. Malagos Garden Resort Philippine Eagle Ctr, Malagos Chocolate Museum, Davao Hilltop view.
Day2. Samal Island. Paradise Island Park &Beach Resort, Hagimit Falls… more ? #samalisland #parkisland #hagimitfalls #davao
Day3. Overview Bukidnon. Bemwa Farm. Stopover at Reel Place to have breakfast. We didn’t make it to Hillsview Sea of clouds due to rough road but the Overview Bukidnon is also a sight to behold. Thank you Davao for the wonderful opportunity to see your beauty! #davao #overviewbukidnon #bemwafarm @ Overview Nature and Culture Park – Kipolot, Palacapao, Quezon, Bukidnon
A quick meet up with Davao based blogger friends Tere & Chikai! Thank you for your time Ladies!

It was just a 3 days short trip but  was enough for me to recharge and really feels good to connect with nature. We would really love to go back. So grateful we had this trip. Little did we know it would be our last travel before the pandemic. So I thought everything will now turn back to normal after getting the much needed break from all the chaos. OR so it seems. When I came back to work and did the usual routine until the news about the virus was getting extreme already. On the second week of March, there are rumours going around of the lockdown in certain areas. Panic buying started and a lot of people were frightened of course.  The President announced the  implementation of the Enhanced Community Quarantine (ECQ) to take effect on March 16, 2020.

Our client was compassionate enough to let us work from home. However, after a few days, we were advised that the company can no longer cope up due to the Pandemic and they need to terminate our service as data and admin representative. We were given a chance to work until the 3rd week of April. The company is no longer generating any sales/ income as there are also restrictions imposed in their country. It was really saddening.

How did we cope up during the Quarantine period? Prayers, keeping ourselves busy, me still working online, DH does the cooking, bake goodies and fed us with delightful dishes. The kids just stayed home ( they were not able to finish the last term in school as the government also decided to suspend classes until further notice. Kids keep them busy with phones, games, etc. Play with our Aimee.

Both of our kids had their Birthday in Quarantine edition 

Nicco’s Bday in May
Gabby celebrated her birthday in April
One of the things that keeps me sane was doing urban gardening and potted plants. Feels good seeing how you were able to nurture these babies and watch them grow under your care.

From Enhanced Community Quarantine, it was  lifted to a more relaxed restriction of General Community Quarantine last 1st June 2020. This is where the movement of all persons shall be limited to accessing essential goods and services, and for work in the offices or industries permitted to operate. Movement for leisure is not allowed. You can read here the ECQ and GCQ Guidelines.  From this day, I felt the effect of being in quarantine for months. When people around us are getting back on track, I have felt being left out as I lost my job during the quarantine and no more work to go back to. With a zero income and a lot of bills that piled up during the lockdown period, I got scared and a bit depressed on how to move on from everything.

With millions of people who lost their jobs and businesses, finding one was really hard. I have to fully utilise time and resources to find one. I have revisited my online job hunting accounts and sent numerous applications. Working from home of course is the best option in  this case as working onsite is still very risky in catching the virtus.

The very first thing I did upon the lift of the ECQ is to accomplish paperworks in securing the unemployment benefits and filing of calamity loan (which was done via online). So i have funds to use to cope up with the many bills (electricity, water, postpaid plans , etc) including daily essentials expenses that piled up.

I was also able to find a part time job online doing data admin tasks.  We were able to set up a new PC for my  kids online learning system as part of the ‘new normal” because going back to school ‘physically’ is on hold for as long as there is no cure or vaccine as per the government. So our 2 kids need to have their own PC for themselves as sharing I believe is not possible if they have the same class schedule and I need to have one for myself for my online work.

Specs: Intel Core I5 9th Gen Processor, MSI B05MPR-VH Motherboard, Kingstons 8GB Furry Black, 1TB HD, Crucial BX500 240GB SSD, Aerocool GT500wCasing, AVR.
Setting up my kids online learning nook. Hopefully I can set up my own workstation too.

I am using the new PC set for now since their online class will begin by last week of August next month.

Finally landing a work frome online job

I was finally offered a full time job. I started part-time during training and then my client finally decided to offer it full time for me. The job itself is very easy although quite overwhelming  when there’s a huge upload feed but still manageable enough for me. The good thing is that I can still have another work contract as long as I meet the deliverables on them.

I started this blogpost on the 5th June and it is already 26th July today and decided to have this published. It ook more that a month to finish this off as there are a lot of offline activities that caught me in between. We are still under the GCQ and there are still rising cases of Covid19. Total cases as of 24 July 2020 is 76,444.

It is still a long journey ahead to fight the Covid19 and Christmas is fast approaching. Despite all the challenge, I am still grateful and thankful for a lot of things… safety, good health, food to eat, a roof under our head. Most important of all. The gift of LIFE and we are still ALIVE amidst the chaos and pandemic. We all hope to survive and keeping our Faith!

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What’s In My Bag?

11 / 11 / 18

I am cleaning the room this morning and get to empty my sling bag to check if there are some dirt or trash that needs to be thrown away. Haha! So I had the chance to see all the things inside.  So why not take a snap and have the what’s in my bag thingy. Haha

This is my everyday bag when I go to work.  Yes! Just a sling bag and another small handbag I got from Daiso which contains an umbrella, my big wallet, tissue and a make up kit.

How about you? What’s in your bag lately?

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Happy New Year 2018!

1 / 1 / 18

So here’s my mandatory blog post to start the year 2018. Haha! Kidding! The year 2017 has taught us all lessons that we learned from. Carry on to this year, we all just wanted to start anew. Good vibes and positivity  only!

DH and I minus the kids. You all know how hard it is to keep the kids sit still to capture that perfect family picture right?! Hahaha!

I started the year right ahead. Went to work early! (Yes, I have shift today!) Even though there was no PUV’s (Public Utility Vehicles)available, DH was kind enough to take the risk to send/ drive (motorcycle)  me off to work. Spend only 5 hours to work, the rest is already allotted for PTOs’ (paid time off). Not bad for  a start this year for work as I only got less than 10 calls and mostly are only emails to work on. Oh well, good luck tomorrow for the queuing! Haha.

I can only wish a good health and may we be able to surpass again whatever challenges we might encounter along as the year 2018 rolls. Of course, we are so looking forward to another year full of hope, good memories to last and cherish again and a fruitful one to enjoy.

 

 

 

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Catching Up Again

7 / 30 / 15

Since we were just nakiki-Wi-Fi with our  SIL, they almost had a month long internet connection problems with Globe (intermittent WLAN connection) and finally resolved this week by getting a new line and modem, we were also greatly affected. Haha! There were times that I had to check out emails on a not so nearby computer shop rentals, which I wonder why  are they  no longer in an air-conditioned area and not to mention the screaming DOTA players. Hehe. Not really suitable for me who sometimes need to rush out on some writing assignments.

I also felt sad that I had to let go of another blog which was given by a dear blogger friend. I really have no choice because I don’t have the funds to keep it up. 🙁 Another thing, I need to fix some problems offline. I even have to turn down a very good offer (job) from a friend for some reasons. Haay! It’s a blow by blow conflicts that  are really taking a toll on our lives. We’re still struggling and still coping up. Time and again, I know things will get better in the end. My mom got hospitalized late last week due to high blood sugar level and we were not able to visit her 🙁  Just received a call late yesterday from my sister that she was finally discharged (Thank God!) and taking insulin shot were no longer recommended by her new doctor. Ian and I were so looking forward to visit her soon in their new home somewhere in south.

Kids are doing ok in their new school ( First Periodical Test are up by early next month). I have a lot of catching to do with regards to their milestones. Still keeping up with taking pictures of them every now and then, only I don’t get to share them lately on FB nor Instagram.  Another thing, I hope to get some freelancing jobs again.

Catch up soon again… I hope to have some happy and cheery posts next time 🙂

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Loving My New Blog Theme!

3 / 27 / 15

Finally, I was able to change my blog theme after three years! Hooray! This time around, I am so happy to find the one that I have been long looking for. First, a minimalist design. Second, It’s a free theme! Third,  I was able to pull off a blog header that I made myself with the help of Angie’s simple “How to Design a Blog Header” Tutorial. 🙂 I downloaded some of her free flower clip arts and voila!

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credits to angiemakes.com for the water color flower clip arts. So girly and pretty!

 

I’ll be tinkering on the font colors next time. For now, I am loving everything here around- it feels homely and this is how I really wanted it to look like. Clean and minimal.

On the side note, our kitchen is close (again) and we will be reopening after Holy Week. So this is the reason why I had the luxury of time to surf around the net. haha! But I am also crossing my fingers that come the month of April, our business will bounce back up again! It has been quite a struggle for both Ian and I because our finances have been depleted since last month. But God is so good that he kept on providing us all that we need every time that we ran out of everything. For the many chances that he never fail to give us, we are so grateful!

I am yet to decide if I really have to go back to work, I mean an 8-5 working job to get a fix salary to augment our income. OR should I stay home still and help out in the Kitchen?! I have been long wanting to just stay at home and be with the family just like our situation now. BUT, the kitchen’s income is not enough to cover all the expenses- bills, bills and more bills! Actually, I am really praying hard to find a home based job. So I can still take a look over at home and the kids while working. I’ve been through a lot with my seven years working experience away from home- the hours of commute, people at work, the terrible weather, freakin hot summer season and the flood during the rainy days. Yes, the FLOOD! I don’t want to deal with them again anymore. Haha!

I know, God will grant me what’s the best for us!  Be it a work away from home or a work based at home, it doesn’t really matter now. For as long as there is work. Ok, so much for the word WORK. haha! I know, God is working on it. 🙂

 

 

 

 

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Idle…

3 / 6 / 15

…OR should I say immobilized?! That’s how I feel for four days now. The kitchen is closed. and I just really couldn’t find the energy to move and think straight. Things gotten worst and here I am doing nothing.

Yes, nothing! I felt so numb that I even couldn’t cry anymore. Thoughts just keeps on rambling in mind. For now, I am just going with the flow of emotions. Not healthy I know because all I feel are fears, doubts and worry. All these three negative emotions are getting into me. I could feel that my heart weakens.

But deep down inside, I still have this feeling of HOPE. I just couldn’t figure how to get out of this situation now.

I just went to the church to pray as I dropped off my son to school, but you know, I wasn’t able to find the right words to say. I just sat there for a few minutes and prayed for peace of mind as I left.

Now, here I am, letting this thing out in the open. Maybe not in full details ( I know you’re all wondering what’s the fuss’ all about, but you somehow understands what I’m going through now ) but I felt ok.

“This too shall pass” . Things will turn out ok. *crossing fingers

So help me God…

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Birthday Treat

2 / 12 / 13

Ian did cooked something special for our lunch last Sunday, Feb 10. Our Chinese New Year and my birthday celebration rolled into one feast. 🙂

Our latest family pic.

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Nothing really fancy, only my family, Glenn (thanks for the Tikoy!) and Mona my sister’s friends came over to greet.

 

Yummiest ube cake made by Ate Irene

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Grilled Liempo

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Siomai!

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Baked Chicken w/ Rosemary

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Eggplant Salad

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All of them made and prepared by Ian 🙂 I did the slicing on some of the ingredients. Hoho! We also had Carbonara and Leche Flan.

My kids were busy playing around with their cousin Dwyane whom they haven’t seen for quite sometime. You know how it is when kids go and play, riot!

at 35, I am so thankful and grateful for an added year in my life. I only wish for a good health and long life so that I can really take good care of my family. I have so many material things that I wish to have, but they do came least on my priorities now.

I just want to  keep things simple and less complicated. Learning to accept and appreciate things coming my way and  avoid whining when things turn sour.

“Positive thinking is not expecting the best to happen every time but, accepting that whatever happens is the best for this moment” – unknown.

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Silence

2 / 8 / 13

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Many things have been going in my mind, cluttered thoughts that is! I opted to go with the flow and let things as it is. There’s nothing much I can do, instead of whining and complaining, I PRAY. It always work and never fails me.

Keeping things real and slow is what I am about now. I don’t want to rush things out, though I don’t intend to remain in this situation for long. Keeping up with pressure doesn’t work for me just yet.

Anyways, I hope to get back in blogging groove in the coming days. The PR juice of this blog dropped to PR1. :’(  As they say, we can never really tell how MR. G works around.

So I need to clean up around and delete some dead and dirty links inside the dashboard. 🙂

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