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Is Grade 3 Really a Big Deal for Your Kid?

8 / 27 / 24

As parents, we often find ourselves caught up in the hustle and bustle of daily life juggling work, family, and social commitments. With all that going on it can be easy to wonder whether third grade really means that much to our kids? Surprisingly enough, third grade is indeed significant. This critical year marks an important turning point in academic journey and sets up future learning for your little one. So as you navigate bake sales, homework help sessions, or early morning tantrums let’s look at why third grade holds such lasting significance.

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The Foundations of Learning

Third grade marks an important transition point from reading for enjoyment to reading to learn, from basic literacy acquisition to more complex texts that demand comprehension and critical analysis. It marks an important milestone in every child’s education.

Academic Milestones

At this stage, students begin exploring subjects beyond reading and writing. Mathematics becomes more abstract as concepts such as multiplication, division and fractions are introduced. Social studies and science projects that spark your child’s curiosity are undertaken, together these subjects provide important knowledge that will remain with them throughout their schooling careers.

Social Sphere

Grade 3 is not just about academic advancement, it’s also an invaluable time of social development. Children start forming meaningful friendships and learning how to navigate complex social interactions through group projects and team activities that challenge them to cooperate, negotiate, and communicate effectively. These skills are necessary not just in school but life outside too. Parents can provide an encouraging and stimulating environment so their child excels within these social settings.

Building Resilience

As your third grade child tackles new challenges, they are also learning resilience. Overcoming difficult math problems or reading assignments that push their abilities teaches them that struggle is an integral part of learning. Encouraging a growth mindset (where effort trumps perfection) will enable your child to embrace challenges rather than shy away from them. Developing this skill is invaluable both academically and beyond.

Parental Involvement

As parents, your involvement is a critical component of your third-grade experience. Regular involvement in school activities, homework help and discussions about their day can instill a love of learning while working closely with teachers and staying informed about the curriculum can only amplify that experience further. Knowing what to expect and how best to support them during this transitional year can make an enormous impactful statement about their educational journey.

The Fine Line of Pressure

At third grade, pressure can sometimes overshadow its significance. Fear of failure or an emphasis on grades can create anxiety that will interfere with learning. Therefore, it’s important to celebrate effort rather than outcomes to promote a healthy balance between achievement and enjoyment.

Looking Ahead

As your child advances through grade 3, anticipating what lies ahead can help both of you prepare for both challenges and triumphs associated with future learning experiences. As children progress into middle grades, they will encounter more complex subjects, including multiplication and division in math as well as deeper comprehension skills in reading. Promoting critical thinking and problem-solving early can provide a strong basis for these more advanced concepts. Fostering positive social interactions and teamwork through group projects or extracurricular activities will be a must as they navigate new friendships and collaborative learning environments. Offering enthusiastic encouragement will not only assist them academically, but will also boost personal growth and build their confidence.

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Making a Big Deal About Grade 3

As your child enters third grade, making a big deal out of it can create lasting memories and foster pride in their achievements. Cultivating this milestone can foster positive associations between learning and school as well as celebrating an important transition point. Here are several strategies for celebrating Grade 3.

Host a Back-to-School Celebration

Kickstart your child’s academic year right with an unforgettable back-to-school party, whether it is just family or with friends. Decorate the house with school-related decor, prepare snacks that reflect this event’s theme, and create a lively and festive environment for everyone attending the celebration. Use this occasion for your child to share their enthusiasm about starting new grades, discuss expectations for them, or express any worries they might have.

Create a Graduation Style Photo Shoot

Commemorate your child’s transition into third grade by staging a graduation-style photo shoot to commemorate their accomplishments and new beginnings. Select an area that holds particular significance for them such as school, park, or even your backyard as the ideal spot. Dress your child up in their favorite outfit or a cap and gown for a fun spin that captures the spirit of graduation. Add props such as chalkboards with their name and year or balloons that represent their interests to create the full graduation experience. Encourage your child to pose in a variety of poses that capture both their personality and enthusiasm for a new school year. These photographs will serve as priceless memories that showcase both their growth and enthusiasm as they embark on this new chapter in their education journey.

Encourage and Praise Enthusiasm

By encouraging your child’s enthusiasm about school, you can significantly increase motivation and engagement. Take time to listen to their thoughts and feelings regarding the coming year – celebrate any excitement while addressing any apprehensions they might be feeling. Use positive reinforcement by acknowledging their efforts in preparing for school, from purchasing supplies or discussing subjects, to setting a supportive atmosphere by regularly applauding their curiosity and eagerness to learn. “I am so impressed by how excited you are about starting third grade.” or “It’s wonderful to see you so engaged with your new classes.” This affirmation not only builds their confidence but also instills their love of learning, creating a positive start to their educational experience this year.

Ways Teachers Can Celebrate Kids Starting Grade 3

Create a Warm Welcoming Environment

Teachers play an invaluable role in creating an inviting learning environment for their students at the start of every new school year. Establishing a vibrant classroom full of decorations and displays related to third grade can create a warm welcome, and adding a “Welcome to Grade 3” bulletin board with students’ names displayed can foster a sense of belonging from day one.

Welcome to Third Grade Colouring Sheet

Celebrate the start of third grade by engaging your students with an exciting colouring sheet themed around this milestone event by encouraging creativity while building anticipation about what lies ahead this year. This engaging activity encourages children to express themselves creatively while creating excitement about what lies ahead. The welcome to third grade coloring sheet can include captivating illustrations related to school, such as books and pencils as well as cheerful characters representing specific subjects. Distributing this colouring sheet on the first day of school gives children an opportunity to relax, have fun and feel connected to their new classroom environment. When finished coloring, display these colorful artworks around your classroom for an engaging learning environment that reflects students’ enthusiasm.

Organize an Icebreaker Activity

Engage students in enjoyable icebreaker activities that allow them to introduce themselves and discuss their interests. This could range from simple games such as “All About Me” posters, to more complicated creative endeavors like the creation of “My Story” books or dioramas. Such activities encourage connection among classmates, foster friendships and help reduce back-to-school anxiety, making the transition smoother and more enjoyable for all involved.

Introduce a Classroom Goal-Setting Session

Empowering students to set personal and academic goals for the school year can create a sense of ownership over their learning journey. Start off the year right by holding a goal-setting session, giving students the chance to express their aspirations for third grade and what they hope to accomplish there. Post these goals prominently around your classroom for constant reminder, with regular check-ins throughout the year to celebrate progress made toward their ambitions and milestones reached.

What Not to Do When Kids Start Grade 3

Avoid Overloading with Homework

A common misstep as students transition into third grade is overloading them with homework assignments. While practicing their skills outside of school is important, assigning too many can cause unnecessary stress and burnout. Aim for a balanced approach that reinforces learning without creating additional pressure. Family time and leisure activities should also be encouraged for optimal development.

Don’t Neglect Communication with Teachers

Another common pitfall of third graders is failing to maintain an open dialogue with teachers. At such an important juncture in development, expectations can change quickly and any misunderstandings quickly emerge. Parents should check-in regularly with educators in order to gain an understanding of classroom dynamics, monitor academic progress and address any concerns early. Fostering collaborative relationships between children and teachers fosters an optimum learning environment for all involved.

Refrain from Comparing to Others

It is important to avoid comparing children’s performance against that of their peers, as each learner develops at their own pace and such comparisons can undermine motivation rather than spur it forward. Instead, stress personal growth and achievements, celebrating each child’s strengths and progress. Doing this helps cultivate a positive self-image which builds up confidence for engaging with challenges within the classroom environment.

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Conclusion

Grade three can be an exciting, transformative year for your child, academically and socially alike. By understanding its significance for their education, you can better support and nurture their journey with enthusiasm and encouragement. Don’t forget that lessons learned, whether in math, reading or friendships, are building blocks of lifelong knowledge. So celebrate milestones, embrace challenges and enjoy every second.

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Funny Shirt For Men

8 / 15 / 24

The best and perfect gift for your funny men on his special day? be it on his birthday or any other occasion like father’s day. Of course, a funny t shirts for men. Definitely fits his goofy and funny character and personality.

How cool this seeing your man wearing the funny statement shirt that is! My husband would definitely love this!

Maturelion My Stomach Is Flat The “L” Is Just Silent Funny Cotton T-shirt

  • 100% Cotton
  • Ultra-cozy and soft for all-day comfort
  • Tagless. itch-free design
  • Pill-resistant finish
  • Machine Wash Cold.Tumble Dry Low

Basic shirt but definitely gives anybody who will wear it a cool character! Very apt to say it matches your cool personality.

They also have the funny mens tank tops, it would definitely looks cool for those who have toned muscular men out them. Very cute isn’t it? I just hope that dad would agree and do not defy wearing it. haha

I Never Question My Wife’s Choices Because I Am One Of Them Washed Tank Top
The tank top humorously conveys a husband's cherish and respect towards his wife. It speaks of the husband's deep affection and love for his wife, allowing people to feel a sense of precious emotion and relationship.

It also looks comfy to wear that men can wear to the gym or onto his running session every morning!
You can check out the Mature Lions website for more cool stuffs! Aside from having the above cool stuffs and they are know for retro chic fashion! Good for everyday shirt as well. They are on current promo with Buy 2 Items Get 3rd FREE!

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Japanese Outfit

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Are you fond of Japanese outfits?! Though their traditional costumes such as the Kimono are still a thing. Japanese dress and clothing has evolved as time goes by. Japanese style clothing fashion now are known for colorful and graphic clothing. There goes the anime that started its root in Japan and has now widely spread among international countries and many are so into it. Among the the population, Japanese fashion now are popular in the younger generations, be it for women as well.



Tokyo-Tiger Osaka tigers 1935 washed Tank

Like the one of the above japanese tank tops for men that are popular among boy groups who are into singing and dancing. Very comfy to wear. Perfect to wear during summer and for everyday style even for some events or just at home or mall. Can be worn as sleeveless and also good for layering- can use long-sleeves as well underneath for a more cool and unique style.

There goes as well the usual japanese style hoodies that many has adapted.

Tokyo-tiger Sapporo Beer Essential Washed Hoodie

The fit goes for unisex. Great for cool weather and even in summer! Yes I’ve seen some young ones so cool and how laid back it looks on them while wearing the said hoodie.

You can check out the Tokyo Tiger website to see for yourself. I can see they have the modern and updated version of the kimono for men and it just really is soo cool to look at. Looks very comfy and lightweight that you can really wear during daytime and even that of your night shift sched.

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Fashionable Christian Faith

8 / 15 / 24


Clothing has evolved nowadays so say goodbye to those traditional ones that are too stiff, uncomfy, heavy and cloaky types. If you are looking for a nice and safest perfect gift that would fit that all of your circle of friends, you can go for the christian t shirts or the christian washed t shirts. The perfect way as well to express your Christian faith and love for God in a fashionable way! Love that they carry those statement shirts that would show off bible verses, catchy affirmations words that are of praise for and glory for your christian faith. They are of unisex and of comfy fabric and high quality materials. comes in different sizes and colors!


Good News Jesus Loves You Christian Washed T-Shirt

They are definitely eye catchy and unique as well and inspiring too to wear and will definitely give you complimentary remarks.

You can check out Guiding Cross website as they also carry other merch that are of christian, faith, love related items, not just shirts and apparels. They also have christian bags, accessories, home and garden items and so much more. Perfect not just for gift ideas but also for giveaway items and souvenirs for personal and business events like weddings, baptism, corporate and school events and so much more. You don’t have to stick to the usual and common items like the usual ballpens, fans, cups and mugs. It is great to give away apparels and bags as give aways that has the christian statement.

Personalized With God All Things Are Possible Premium Tote Bag

stylish totes are perfect for carrying workout clothes, books, or any other essentials you may need a lightweight, sturdy bag for. The bags are quite roomy and have your name on the front pocket.

What a great way to carry things with an expressive thoughts for your faith!

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Unique Shirt

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Are you looking for a unique gift? Are you tired of the usual teddy,plushies, roses, cards, toys that you usually give as a surprise gift to give to your partner, friend, colleague or relatives? You may want to look at other alternatives that are sustainable, useful and unique. In this time where we really wanted to value our money’s worth, we don’t want our hard earned money put to waste. Giving gifts has to be really taken seriously to keep your special someone happy. So drop that usual and traditional way of making your friends happy and give them another way to enjoy and a surprise~

Why not give them a geek t shirt this time around? they would definitely appreciate it more as they can wear it around on some casual mall trips, school shirts or just lounging around at home. It also gives a person individuality. Like a person who loves to play games would definitely be delighted to get a surprise gamer t shirt! Of course, it would definitely add up spice as he plays game and motivated to do good and achieve that goal as he plays, knowing he’s wearing a statement shirt.


Or that a star wars fanatic would be ecstatic to have an flaunt in his social media account wearing a star wars tshirt and get few more likes from their fellow movie and book fanatics as well.


R2D2 Mondrian T-shirt

Best for casual, daily and all season shirts. Comfy and unique style and designs. You can check out Geekshop for more nerdy and geeky t shirts perfect for that Geeky and Nerdy type of friends, colleagues, relatives! They are now on sale and have a wide variety of choices at a very affordable prices.


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Christian Shirts

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Back in the day, people are still conservative in so many ways with traditions, way of living and fashion. but as time evolve with technology, people find ways to express themselves freely without going beyond the norm and still within the limits of their beliefs and faith. Though some are still stuck being in the norms of conservatives or traditional but most have moved forward already.

One way of expressing your faith and spirituality without being boring is through fashion clothing. Very fun and elegant way to express yourself as well!

Faith Over Fear Christian Washed T-Shirt

$31.95 USD



I myself who is very fond of wearing t shirts love to wear statement shirts. I used to collect band shirts as well. I wear them on all occasions from house shirts to going to malls and even to office at work when I still go on site. Friends and people often ask me where I buy them, I get to buy ones through the mall and my favorite shop, Uniqlo.

However, things changed since pandemic happens were everyone has turned into online shopping most of the time and I never went back to the mall to buy (though I still do at times when I just feel like going out.) I found a lot on TikTok to do my shirt purchases most of the time.

Now that I am done and over with band shirts. I now go with statement shirts and christian t shirts. Sincce my husband passing almost a year ago. My faith has been renewed and I am now more closer and strengthening my faith God and this resonates in all the things I do even with my fondness with clothes.

Glad I was able to find an online store for all of my needs on christian tee shirts, The Guiding Cross, a faith-based Christian shop that creates exceptional products for you to share Christian faith.

Good News Jesus Loves You Christian Washed T-Shirt

$33.95 USD

They only not just cater and is limited to shirts but also offers different kinds of products that allows you to express and show your Christian faith! They also have christian bags 

See how cool you carry your school stuffs around with this bag.

Spirit Lead Me Christian Tote Bag

Specifications

• Materials: 600-denier polyester
• Dimensions: 18″Length x 13.5″ Height x 3.9″Width
• Shoulder straps: black, 19″
• Outside pocket : Two side mesh pockets and one front pocket with pen loop.
• Internal pocket: A small zipped pocket for your wallet or mobile phone.
• Back panel is Black
• Print is professional heat transfer vinyl

You can check their Christian apparel, wall art,  jewelry, and other accessories collection, you can always be an ambassador of God’s amazing grace.

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Geeky Gifts For Father’s Day

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Father’s day is just around the corner and I know everyone’s busy trying to look around for a gift to give their Dads. There are a lot of available items to choose from. For fashionable Dad’s out there, a nice gift that would surely fit their personality would be a geek t shirt that is very unique and somewhat different from the usual outfits that will made them stand out among others.

Fathers portray different work roles, from corporate, blue collar jobs, work from home. onsite jobs, et. But wearing comfy clothes should be a top priority especially during the summer season.


If you are looking for the place on where to find the geek shirt, check them out at GeeksOutFit as they are now currently on sale for Father’s Day Promo up to 50% Off.

My husband used to love wearing this type of cute ned t shirts. Showing off how proud dad he is!

I Am Your Father Nerd T-Shirt

Available in different colors like Navy , army green, red, black, light blue and grey. Style is casual and cotton material.


The pries are very affordable and budget friendly and definitely can fit all of those in your lists of to buys for gifts.

No that they only have clothing and apparels for men and women but also accessories like this pins for Dads! Actually, not just pins but stickers, bags, jewelries, socks and wide variety of options you can choose from and even home decors. How’s that?

I Tell Dad Jokes Periodically Pins
$7.95 USD

Isn’t it perfect for cool dads out there?! check out out for yourself Geekies!

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My Online Activities Lately

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It’s summer and we’re at the height of getting the hottest heat index calculated so far. The Department of Education has already announced of class suspension in all levels. One of the things I hate the most is going out to do some errands as we don’t really have a choice but to bear the heat outside. I remember back in the day where we enjoy summer! The heat back then is bearable and something to look forward doing summer activities like swimming, going on music, arts and other fun lessons! Of course, my childhood friends and I have all the time going playing outside, that’s quite a lot of physical activities!

However, as time goes by and evolve with the modern technology, our activities also evolve and we are more inclined to do online activity more. It reflects on the kids’ generation now. I remember how my son’s motivation to reading is that he’d able to read out the texts on the online kids games he’s playing with. haha! For us parents and adults, we are also more inclined to do shopping online! doing the grocery and buying clothes has never been easier now with just a few clicks away. We have saved so much on time and effort in doing these things. So far, doing online shopping is the thing I enjoyed the most. haha!

Although doing online activities should never hinder us to do more physical activities. It should go hand in hand like for health purposes for example, I myself is trying to become more physically fit and is now taking maintenance medications for Diabetes. I am monitoring my weight and invested in a weighing scale and is now tracking on my weight loss. I used to75 kilos, went down on 65 and currently on 67 kilos.

With the help of these online tools. I am trying to use the online calculator and able to monitor and estimate body fat. Carefully explained the specifics and details below screenshot.

I love that it is very helpful for everyone who is going through and trying to achieve their weight loss goals. Very informative indeed as they also have other tips on how you can really achieve a healthy lifestyle and are backed up with resources from the experts. I love that they also have online kids games! Perfect not just for kids but for young at hearts too! Their Tap Supermarket is so much fun.

is an isometric game where the player must manage a grocery store including restocking produce, expanding the line of goods sold, and checking out customers. As you proogress through the game you can unlock new displays. Don’t forget to scroll up to the stock room in the upper left corner of the game to keep it stocked as well.

How about you? What are you up to on your online activity lately?

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Struggling for Personal Space? The Manila Mom’s Guide to Guilt-Free Me-Time

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In bustling Manila, finding personal space can feel like a rare gem amidst the chaos. 

We’re constantly juggling family, work, and social commitments, often neglecting our own need for guilt-free me-time. However, prioritizing self-care is crucial for Manila moms to maintain balance and well-being. 

In this blog post, we’ll delve into practical tips tailored to the unique challenges faced by Manila moms, helping you carve out moments of tranquility without the weight of guilt. 

Join us as we navigate the vibrant energy of Manila, reclaiming our right to uninterrupted me-time and nurturing our inner selves along the way.

What is the Importance of Personal Space?

Personal space isn’t just a luxury; it’s a necessity. Here’s why personal space is important in today’s fast-paced world:

Mental and Emotional Recharge

Personal space offers a break from life’s demands, allowing our minds to rest and recharge. This break helps reduce stress and prevents burnout, promoting emotional well-being and inner peace.

Reflection and Self-Discovery

Time alone gives us the chance to reflect on our thoughts and feelings without distractions. Through introspection, we gain insights into ourselves, our values, and our aspirations, fostering personal growth.

Stress Reduction and Mood Improvement

Research shows that regular personal time lowers stress and boosts mood. By prioritizing self-care, we activate the body’s relaxation response, easing tension and promoting happiness in our daily lives.

Enhanced Productivity and Effectiveness

Contrary to belief, personal time doesn’t hinder productivity; it enhances it. Taking breaks to recharge boosts focus, creativity, and efficiency, leading to greater effectiveness in our tasks.

What are the Psychological Benefits of Me-Time?

In our fast-paced world, finding moments of solitude and self-reflection has become increasingly vital for our overall well-being. Here are the psychological benefits of me-time:

Unlocks Creativity and Innovation

Me-time sparks creativity by allowing our minds to explore new ideas and solutions. Stepping back from daily demands allows fresh perspectives to emerge, leading to breakthroughs and personal growth.

Balances Motherhood and Personal Needs

Prioritizing self-care alongside motherhood prevents burnout and fosters a happier family life. By modeling healthy habits, we teach our children the importance of self-respect and boundary-setting.

Empowers Self and Setting Examples

Me-time isn’t selfish; it’s a necessary act of self-empowerment and care. When we invest in ourselves, we become better equipped to support others, nurturing stronger relationships and deeper connections.

Achieves Harmony

Balancing personal space with family responsibilities creates a healthier dynamic where everyone’s needs are acknowledged. Setting aside guilt and communicating openly fosters an environment of respect and understanding within the family.

What are Practical Strategies for Finding Personal Space?

In the hustle and bustle of daily life, finding personal space can seem like a luxury. However, it’s essential for maintaining mental and emotional well-being. Here are practical strategies to carve out moments of tranquility amidst the chaos:

Manage Your Time Effectively

Evaluate your daily routine to identify tasks that can be delegated or eliminated. Create a schedule that includes dedicated time for yourself, even if it means adjusting your wake-up time or setting boundaries. Remember, prioritizing self-care is crucial for maintaining balance and well-being.

Create a Personal Sanctuary at Home

Designate a corner of your home as a personal sanctuary where you can relax and recharge. Fill this space with items that bring you joy and comfort, such as candles, blankets, or books. Having a designated spot for yourself allows you to escape daily stressors and reconnect with your inner peace.

Hire a Childminder

Don’t hesitate to seek help from trusted caregivers, whether family, friends, or professionals, to prioritize your personal space while ensuring your child’s care.

For example, Inna Circle offers affordable childminder rates tailored to fit the unique needs of busy moms like you. It provides a reliable and budget-friendly solution for quality childcare support. With Inna Circle, you can find peace of mind knowing your child is in good hands while you take essential time for yourself.

FAQs

How can I overcome feelings of guilt associated with taking personal time?

It’s common for moms to feel guilty about prioritizing personal space, but it’s important to recognize that self-care is essential for overall well-being. Remind yourself that taking care of your needs allows you to be a better caregiver for your family.

What are some quick self-care activities I can incorporate into my busy schedule?

Self-care doesn’t always require a significant time commitment. Simple activities like taking a short walk, practicing deep breathing exercises, or enjoying a hot cup of tea can help you recharge and reset, even in the midst of a busy day.

How can I communicate my need for personal space with my family members?

Open and honest communication is key. Sit down with your family and explain why personal space is important for your well-being. Establishing boundaries and discussing ways they can support you in finding time for yourself can help create a supportive environment.

How can I make the most of my personal time without feeling pressured to be productive?

Personal time is about relaxation and rejuvenation, not productivity. Give yourself permission to simply unwind and do activities that bring you joy, whether that’s reading a book, taking a long bath, or practicing mindfulness. Remember, personal space is about nourishing your soul and recharging your batteries.

Conclusion

In the hustle and bustle of Manila life, where the pace never seems to slow down, finding personal space can feel daunting. Juggling multiple roles and responsibilities, moms often find themselves putting their own well-being on the back burner. However, amidst the chaos, it’s essential to recognize the importance of prioritizing self-care. Throughout this blog, we’ve delved into practical tips tailored to the unique circumstances Manila moms face. 

It’s time for us to reclaim those precious moments of tranquility and self-reflection, nurturing ourselves along the way. 

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Ian’s Battle with CKD Stage 5

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I have written this post sometime in June 2023 while I was with Ian in VRP (where he tested positive for COVID Pneumonia) we were so financially drained, but still in high in spirit and hopes that Ian will still be able to make it just as his previous hospitalization. Well he did, he gather and muster all his strength to make in time for his sister prior to going back in AU. But his condition got worsen after going home 🙁

It has been sitting in my draft for too long that I almost don’t want to publish this anymore. It has been 8 months since he’s been gone and I was left alone in battling severe anxiety and in deep grief. I will tackle in separate post about this terrible experience.

It all began, 5 years ago. Ian was rushed to two different hospitals as he’s complaining of shortness of breath and a feeling of drowning while lying flat on his back. He’s been on his heaviest weight and showing signs of edema on his legs. A few years back from then, he underwent toe amputation due to foot ulcer and gangrene. He’s been Diabetic since he was 16 years old.

The initial nearby public hospital we went to was no help as the doctor only prescribed him to drink Gaviscon and we were sent home, it was a traumatic experience from a bad doctor who was trying to belittle all what we’re trying to say to an obvious urgent medical condition but just shrugged it off and even say other patient’s condition were far more critical than him. So off we transferred to another city hospital and he had series of laboratory exams. The doctor advised we look for a bigger hospital where there is a facility for a dialysis. It didn’t sink in yet at that stage as we are still clueless of what the diagnosis is.

While waiting at ER in a public hospital

congested



We were referred to a nephrologist in a big hospital. All the tests were repeated and finally able to confirm he has a congested heart failure ( CHF) and a Stage 3b Chronic Kidney Disease (CKD). No, the nephrologist did not asked him to go under emergency dialysis. He stayed for about 3-4 days and was discharged. His Cardiologist advise us that he needs to go for an Angiogram to confirm blockage and if there is, must need to go for Angioplasty. We went for a follow up check up to the Nephro to submit his follow up lab and never went back after.

Years passed and pandemic happened. 5 years went by, we almost thought he got Covid and a doctor prescribed him to take Remdesivir twice and then only to find out he is negative from Covid and was properly diagnosed with Pneumonia instead. He got well after that. Thank God!

Fast forward, 11th April 2023 we rushed him to emergency in TMC (The Medical City) Pasig, he recently had the worst nausea to the point he couldn’t stand long on his feet and twice he almost fainted while we were doing grocery, he said he couldn’t see anything, all were in white background. No, his breathing was a ok this time. Although he’s been feeling more weak and tired more often. He also said he’s feeling a swelling on one of his testes. I googled everything about the symptoms and was lead to ‘Testicular Cancer’. He doesn’t want to go to hospital for a check up, he always dread going to the hospital. The only time he would let me take him to the hospital is when he feels he no longer can’t handle the pain anymore. This time, while he is in emergency room isolation, he was told he is going to undergo an emergency dialysis. It is only then I realised and dawned on me that his CKD has now made a progress to its final stage! Chronic Kidney Disease Stage 5.

I created this TikTok Video while he was at the ICU ( TMC) and I was at the waiting area. I can only see him every visiting hours at 5pm-7pm. I did not go home. I was just waiting for him to be transferred to a regular room, he stayed 3 days at the ICU


The doctor finally called me to explain they will perform a procedure and will insert an IJ Catheter on his neck for the emergency dialysis. I wasn’t permitted to go inside the emergency room to be with him, but we’re communicating via video call in FB. I was just in the hospital’s lobby waiting for an update while he’s going through series of exams again, 2D echo, blood tests, x-rays and everything else! The day after, another procedure was performed for a fistula in his arm in preparation for a continued Dialysis ( I believe this cost around 30K excluding professional fees, etc) . This hospitalisation has cost around three hundred plus thousand pesos (P300,000).

16th April, he was finally discharged and we were able to find a nearby Dialysis Center at Novus Renal Care in Mandaluyong. He started and were coping up with the changes as a new Dialysis patient. Everything was a struggle with changes in lifestyle and way of living. He has to allot 4-5 hours and up to 6 hours a day for his Hemodialysis session 3x a week MWF schedule.

14th of May, Mother’s day, he was again rushed to emergency due to weakness, he has been vomiting with blood and episodes of tarry stool. he has been put in ICU for monitoring where he spent 8 days and total of 10 days in the hospital. While in ICU he had an endoscopy and find out he had internal bleeding. Multiple biopsies were taken from mass/lesion. Post biopsy bleeding controlled with epinephrine injection and hemoclipping (x 3 clips deployed). He also underwent blood transfusion. A total of 11 bags were given all through his ICU stay. He also had hospital acquired Pneumonia.

24th of May, he was discharged from the hospital and were given instructions for home care. The hospital bill has ballooned cost 1.4 Million pesos less 20% discount for PWD and we were able to seek assistance through Guarantee Letter from PCSO for 30,000 pesos. Our relatives, family, friends. and colleagues have also showed concern and has helped us too too in our plea for financial help. Our savings has been depleted with the bills and medicines from the 2 hospitalizations.

5 days after the recent confinement, 31st of May, Ian has again lost his strength to stand up and unable to go to his scheduled dialysis. Since we no longer have enough funds due to his last hospitalization, we tried to bring him to a nearby public hospital ( Mandaluyong Medical Center) but they have advised to bring him back to TMC as he already had his history there and the doctor said the hospital is not equipped with the Dialysis machine needed for his medical attention.

So off we go to VRP hospital here in Mandaluyong, It is also a private hospital but much nearer to our home. This time his Hemoglobin again dropped off and he had another blood transfusion. Another things is, he tested for positive this time from COVID upon the RT PCR examination done as a protocol. He may have caught it during his confinement at The Medical City where he also had hospital acquired Pneumonia while in ICU.

His current running bill is almost half a million ( 500,000 pesos) With the previous hospitalisations we are in dire need for additional funds to settle his bills and for his continued and ongoing medications. We still have our high hopes that he can go through Kidney Transplant in the future. Ian is 45 years old, we have 2 kids, 19 years old, a Psychology major student in FEU and 17 years old a senior high school student in Hulo Integrated School. I am currently working as VA and trying to make ends meet.

Ian’s only wish is to see his kids graduate in college and we all wish for him to recover and do the things he used to love to do like cooking, biking and be as mobile as he used to be before Chronic Kidney Disease took off all his might and strength. We will be forever be grateful for all the help and support, financial assistance and prayers for him to get well. God is good and all glory in his name.

*Upon discharge in June 17, 2023. His bill has ballooned to a million with Philhealth covering only 300K for severe Covid case.

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